What are the steps in confronting Moral Dilemmas? 

Identify the relevant moral factors and reasons. 

Gather all available facts that are pertinent to the moral factors included. Rank the moral  considerations in order of significance as they apply to the situation. Rank the moral considerations in order of significance as they apply to the situation. Consider alternative courses of actions as ways of resolving dilemma, tracing the full implications of each.  Get suggestions and alternative perspectives on the dilemma. By weighing all the relevant moral factors and reasons in light of the facts, make a reasoned judgment.