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Activity: Factors That Affect Self-Esteem
Read the following stories about Marlen and Lily to learn more about the factors that influence self-esteem and the impact of self-esteem on daily living. Then, answer the questions.
Marlen's Story
Growing up, Marlen would spent a lot of time at her grandparents' house with her siblings and cousins. She knows from her friends at school that not all siblings get along well, but Marlen has always felt loved and supported by her family. Marlen does not feel any pressure to be perfect or hide mistakes, because her parents taught her that these things make her unique and will help her grow. Marlen wants to prioritize her friendships and schoolwork, so it does not bother her that she has not dated yet. She may not be the fastest swimmer on her team, but she feels proud about how much she has improved personally over the years. Today, Marlen feels good about who she is.
Lily's Story
Lily was bullied throughout grade school. Her classmates mocked her at school, and they never invited her to their birthday parties. Lily's parents just told her to be more friendly and open. When she entered high school, Lily fell in with some older classmates. They often pressure her to do things she is not comfortable with, like vaping or dating an older boy, Jake. She goes along with it because she fears they will stop liking her otherwise. Lily does not believe anyone else at school would like her, so she remains friends with them. She even continues to date Jake, who has recently been disrespectful toward her and pressures her about becoming more intimate.
What factors helped Marlen develop healthy self-esteem? What factors have negatively impacted Lily's self-esteem?
How has Marlen's healthy self-esteem impacted her daily life? How has Lily's low self-esteem impacted her daily life?
What advice would you give to Lily to help her develop healthy self-esteem?