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Among both female and male college students and young adults, one increasingly common form of sexual activity is the hook-up, a one-time casual unplanned sexual encounter that can range anywhere from kissing to intercourse (Bog le, 2008; Regnerus & Uecker, 2011; Stepp, 2007). Another form of sexual intimacy is known as friends with benefits. In this arrangement, the partners start out as friends and decide to periodically engage in sexual behavior but not become a couple (Diamond, 2010). Paula England and her colleagues (England et al., 2007) found that over 70 percent of the students they surveyed had hooked up, usually after consuming alcohol. One in five of these students had hooked up with ten or more different partners during their college years. Men are more likely than women to prefer hooking up to dating while the reverse is true for women (Bradshaw et al., 2010; Rhoads et al.,2010). Why is this? Women view hooking up as less likely to lead to a relationship and as more likely to produce feelings of distress, shame, or regret (Eshbaugh & Gute, 2008; Fielder & Carey, 2010; Hamilton & Armstrong, 2009; Owen et al., 2010; Regnerus & Uecker, 2011; Smith et al., 2008).
WHAT DOES IT MEAN?
1. Discuss concerns that young people who have hook-ups or friends with benefits don't learn to build emotional intimacy before they get physically intimate and may fail to know how to connect with future partners on an intimate level. Are these concerns valid? Why or why not?
2. When, if at all, do you consider it to be acceptable to have a hook-up or a "friend with benefits"? What level of physical intimacy do you think is appropriate between people who don't have an emotional relationship?
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